How to be absolutely fabulous…

Being fabulous is a state of mind, an attitude, and a way of living. It is about feeling confident, beautiful, and living a life that is true to who you are. Being fabulous is not about being perfect, it is about being the best version of yourself.

Below are some of my key tips on how to level up into the truly fabulous person you were born to be!

Be Confident:

Confidence is one of the key components of being fabulous. It is the foundation upon which everything else is built. Being confident means believing in yourself, your abilities, and your worth. It means being comfortable in your own skin, and not being afraid to show your true self to the world.

To become more confident, you can practice positive self-talk, which involves telling yourself positive affirmations, such as "I am worthy" or "I am enough." You can also work on developing a growth mindset, which means believing that you can improve and learn new things through hard work and dedication. Another way to boost your confidence is to take care of yourself physically, such as by exercising regularly, eating a healthy diet, and getting enough sleep.

Embrace Your Style:

Being fabulous is about embracing your personal style and expressing it through your clothing, accessories, and makeup. It is about being true to yourself and not trying to conform to what others think is fashionable or trendy.

To embrace your style, start by identifying what makes you feel confident and comfortable. Look for clothing and accessories that reflect your personality, whether it is bold and colorful or understated and classic. Experiment with different styles and trends, but only wear what makes you feel good. Remember, the most important thing is to be authentic and true to yourself. I live in dresses because that is my true authentic style. I feel feminine and in flow in a pretty swishy dress and can’t understand how so many women live in tight jeans (when I wear jeans I feel so constricted and uncomfortable!) I often look at other trends that emerge, I may even dabble with them, but I still always revert back to my floral dress blueprint!

Develop Positive Relationships:

Another important aspect of being fabulous is developing positive relationships with others. This means surrounding yourself with people who support and encourage you, and who bring positivity into your life.

To develop positive relationships, focus on building genuine connections with others. Listen actively, show interest in their lives, and offer support when they need it. Be kind and empathetic, and avoid negative gossip or drama. By building strong relationships with others, you will feel more connected and fulfilled, which will help you feel more fabulous.

Remember, you become the sum of the 5 people you spend the most time with, so make sure you pick a tribe that is fab!

Cultivate Inner Beauty:

Being fabulous is not just about your outward appearance, it is also about cultivating inner beauty. This means developing qualities such as kindness, compassion, and empathy, and being a positive force in the world.

To cultivate inner beauty, start by practicing kindness and empathy towards others. Volunteer your time or resources to help those in need, and focus on being a positive influence in your community. Work on developing self-compassion and self-care, and practice mindfulness and gratitude to cultivate a positive mindset.

Pursue Your Passions:

Being fabulous is about pursuing your passions and living a life that is true to who you are. It is about finding joy and fulfillment in the things you love to do, whether it is a hobby, a career, or a creative pursuit.

To pursue your passions, start by identifying what brings you joy and fulfillment. Look for ways to incorporate these passions into your daily life, whether it is through a hobby or a career.

My true, deep passion is writing (this is why I am absolutely loving creating blogs and emails and content - it is my happy space!). One day I will escape to a cabin on a beautiful river in solitude for a week and write a book.

What is your inner passion? Have you fulfilled it yet? Tune into this and step into some truly fabulous energy. Your soul will feel alive, reborn and “home” again!